PLEASE NOTE: Marriage mentoring may not be appropriate in cases of abuse, addictions, adultery or abnormal personality issues; professional counseling or therapy is usually needed in such cases. Please contact Mike Myers (mmyers@gateway-community.org)

Marriage Mentoring is at the heart of our efforts to help couples create loving, lasting marriages. Most couples have never had positive relationships or conflict resolution modeled. Thus, they have no "template" or pattern from which to build their own healthy marriage.

Marriage mentoring can make a huge difference. (Statistics below taken from materials produced by Marriage Savers)

Consider premarital counseling/mentoring. Couples who take a premarital inventory such as PREPARE and then meet with a mentor couple have a 97% success rate after 10 years. And 10% of couples opt not to get married, having the same inventory scores as those who later divorce.

Consider restoration mentoring. Couples on the brink of divorce who enroll in marriage education with follow-up mentoring increase their chances of staying together to 80%.

Here at Gateway we offer marriage mentoring in three areas:

Beginning: For soon-to-be and newly married couples.

Maximizing: For couples who want to strengthen a good marriage and possibly work through an issue or two where they have been "stuck"

Restoring: For couples who have experienced significant stress, wounding and distancing in their marriage.

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